Hexagram #37
It is racial cliche to talk about the Black Family. The romantic relationships turned to responsibility turn to battleground and cage. No doubt there are the beautiful women and men who have developed and nurtured "healthy" relationships for many years and serve as role models for us all, but I think the majority of them stay away from public professions of their love. They know the humility a serious relationship with one person produces. To love someone is to gain sense of who you truly are in both your beauty and ugliness. In your beauty you find your power and strength to assist, aid, endure, and promote. In your ugliness you learn that the world is bigger even than your flaws, shortcomings, and periods of hopelessness. In the Chinese Book of Wisdom the I-Ching hexegram #37 corresponds to household. The judgement reads perserverance of the woman furthers. The difficulty in applying this to contemporary society, esepcially within intellectual communities is diffic...